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Is it my destiny?

Kunthy, your destiny is to be a Provider.Whether you know it or not, this is the role that is most in tune with who you are at your core. As a Provider, you have a genuine nurturing concern for the welfare of others and you’re eager to serve them. You can recognize exactly what people need and your friendly, helpful, social nature makes them feel comforted. With your kind and generous heart, you are personable, talkative, and outward with your emotions, and your openness and sensitivity makes you concerned about the way others view you. Along these lines, be careful not to blame yourself when things go wrong. You cannot prevent bad things from happening, even though your tendency to be orderly with a strong sense of right and wrong may lead you to believe you can. Accept that you do what you can to take care of things and that this will get you far in the world.

Is it true about myself?? :(

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That’s what i got from him. Thank for sharing!!!

Song for silent night

ឱក្តីសង្ឃឹម​ ឱក្តីសង្ឃឹម​ ដូចមេឃស្រទុំ ដូចមេឃស្រទុំ​ អោយខ្ញុំក្រៀមក្រំ ក្រៀមក្រំឱរ៉ា

ឱមេឃនិងដី ម្ចាស់ថ្លើមថ្លៃស្នេហា សូមអាណិតភ័ព្វព្រេងវាសនា ដែលប្រាថ្នាទាំងអស់សង្ឃឹម

Is he/she a liar?

I have received this text from my lovely friend and i cant help posting it to share to other friends.Moon, Thank very much for sharing. I love it :)

Signs of deception

Once you realize that you’re being lied to, should you confront the liar immediately? Usually not. The best approach is to note the fact in your mind and continue with the conversation, trying to extract more information. Once you confront someone who has lied to you, the tone of the conversation changes and gathering additional facts becomes difficult. Therefore, wait until you have all the evidence you want and then decide whether to confront the person at that time or hold off to figure how you can best use this insight to your advantage.

Section 1: Body Language

• The person will make little or no eye contact. A person who is lying to you will do everything to avoid making eye contact.

• Physical expression will be limited, with few arm and hand movements. What arm and hand movements are present will seem stiff, and mechanical. Hands, arm and legs pull in toward the body; the individual takes up less space.

• His hand(s) may go up to his face or throat, especially to the mouth. But contact with his body is limited to these areas. He is also unlikely to touch his chest with an open hand gesture. He may also touch the nose or scratch behind the ear.

• If he is trying to appear casual and relaxed about his answer, he may shrug a little.

Section 2: Emotional States: Consistency and Contradiction

• The timing is off between gestures and words. If the facial expression comes after the verbal statement (“I am so angry with you right now” … pause … and then the angry expression), it looks false.

• The head moves in a mechanical fashion without regard to emphasis, indicating a conscious movement.

• Gestures don’t match the verbal message, such as frowning when saying “I love you.” Hands tightly clenched and statements of pleasure are not in sync with each other.

• The timing and duration of emotional gestures will seem off. The emotion is delayed coming on, stays longer than it should, and fades out abruptly.

• Expression will be limited to the mouth area when the person is feigning certain emotions –happiness, surprise, awe, and so on – rather than the whole face.

Section 3: Interpersonal Interactions – When we are wrongfully accused, only a guilty person gets defensive. Someone who is innocent will usually go on the offensive.

• He is reluctant to face his accuser and may turn his head or shift his body away.

• The person who is lying will probably slouch; he is unlikely to stand tall with his arms out or outstretched.

• There’s movement away from his accuser, possibly in the direction of the exit.

• There will be little or no physical contact during his attempt to convince you.

• He will not point his finger at the person he is trying to convince.

• He may place physical objects (pillow, drinking glass, et cetera) between himself and his accuser to form a barrier, with a verbal equivalent of “I don’t want to talk about it,” indicating deception or covert intention.

 

 

Today quote

“To love someone is one thing, To be loved by someone is another thing but to be loved by the one you love is everything”

“No matter how hard you suffer from it, It seems to make you grow up. No matter how hard you suffer from it, at least you have your soft heart to love.”

Tonight song

ធ្វើម្តេចនិស្ស័យកម្មតាមផ្តន្ទា​ ជាតិនេះវេទនាគ្រាំគ្រាសើ្ទរតែមរណា​ រស់នៅរាល់ថ្ងៃអត់ន័យខ្លឹមសារ ជួបតែសេ្នហាហោះហើរដូចផ្សែង….

“Everytime I think of you, I’m sad. Everytime I hear your name, I’m mad. But everytime I think of how you made me feel, I’m glad.”
By Unknown

Word for today :(

 

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“Love is the thing that cannot be forced or escaped. It happens naturally. It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone – but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.The more you want to forget, the deeper sad feeling goes inside.Only the time can heal it”

Words for thought

“Never say goodbye when you still want to try.
Never give up when you still feel you can take it.
Never say you don’t love a person when you can’t let go. “

“Love the heart that hurts you,
But never hurt the heart that loves you.”

“You can close your eyes to things you don’t want to see, but you can’t close your heart to things you don’t want to feel.”

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